LogoBetter Love Skills Quiz

Is this just a rough patch, or something more?

If you've been wondering what's really going on between you, this is a place to find out. In about 5 minutes, you'll have an answer, plus your personalized Better Love Blueprint: your patterns across self-awareness, emotions, boundaries, and communication, in plain, honest language. From relationship mentor Staci Bartley.

Free. Private. About 5 minutes.

You've asked yourself that question in the middle of the night more times than you've said it out loud. Let's finally answer it.

What we look at

The skills that shape how we love

These are the areas the 22 questions explore. Not six scores to pass or fail: a picture of how you show up, so you know where to focus.

  • Know yourself

    See how clearly you understand your own patterns and needs in relationships.

  • Master your emotions

    Learn how well you steady yourself instead of reacting from overwhelm.

  • Set boundaries

    Find out how easily you can say no without guilt or fear of losing people.

  • Talk so people hear you

    Discover how well you turn what you feel into words others can actually receive.

  • Read the moment

    Understand how you repair and rebuild safety after tension or conflict.

  • See your blind spots

    Notice the past patterns that still shape how you show up today.

How it works

How it works, in three steps

No prep, no right answers, and nothing to study for. You enter your first name and email, move through the questions at your own pace, and your personalized Better Love Blueprint arrives the moment you finish, in plain, honest language: what your results mean, and one clear next step. Most people are done before their coffee gets cold.

  1. 1

    Answer 22 honest questions

    Short, thoughtful prompts about how you feel, react, and connect. About 5 minutes, no wrong answers, and if a question doesn't apply to you, the quiz skips it.

  2. 2

    Get your answer, and your skill profile

    Your results open with the answer: does this look like a rough patch, or something more? Then your four core skill scores, from your strengths to the areas ready for growth.

  3. 3

    Know your next step

    Walk away with a clear picture of what to focus on to build safer, closer relationships.

Staci and Tom Bartley, hosts of Love Shack Live
In your corner

Meet your guide, Staci Bartley.

When relationships keep repeating the same painful patterns, it's hard not to wonder: Is it my communication? My boundaries? My emotions? Or something deeper?

Here's what no one told you: most relationships don't struggle from a lack of love. They struggle from a lack of skills. And most of us were never taught a single one.

Staci Bartley, relationship mentor and creator of the Better Love Club, built this quiz from almost two decades of teaching these skills to over 1,500 individuals, couples, and Fortune 500 leaders.

Because healthy relationships aren't built on wishful thinking. They're built on skills. And skills can be learned.

Before you talk yourself out of it

The thoughts that stop people right here

You deserve to understand.

Looking takes courage, and you already have it. Give yourself five honest minutes today. This one step can change how you love for years to come.

Free. Private. No pressure, ever.